Monday, August 13, 2007

The Commitment-Phobe

Found this link from a friend's site. Since im waiting for precious sleep to visit me, tried to answer the questions and the statement below came up after it analyzed my answers. I was thinking that maybe, i could post this as the 3rd part of my "Get-a-life" issue. So here's the answer to the question: Why am I still single?

Definitely speaks a lot about me.

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Once the blush of first love wears off with your partners, do you get a little antsy? You probably crave excitement in all realms of your life, and you need a relationship to keep you filled with possibilities. Let us guess: Someone has probably told you that you haven't quite grown up yet, that you're still holding out for the perfect "whatevers" (job, car, home, date) in your life to come a knockin'. Or perhaps you're just having a difficult time accepting that your comfortable little place in this world is always growing, always evolving — and that means you have to be willing to accept big life changes, too. Not that there's anything wrong with that. After all, you're probably a lot of fun to be around and may be the life of the party.

But when it comes to settling down, you leave without looking back twice. Now's the time to ask yourself: Why? What's holding you back? Maybe you don't want someone to get to know you fully? Perhaps by saying "yes" to someone, you're afraid you'll lose yourself, or the possibility of something better coming along. Just remember that the best relationships are those that never stop growing. That's something you can identify with, right? So keep that in mind next time you find someone you're really comfortable with. You never know, it may prove even more exciting once you really get to know each other, teensy flaws and all.

To summarize things up, I had this as an answer...
you're single because you don't want to commit!

Hmmm, nothing sounds better than this. Too correct to be true...hehe

4 comments:

snglguy said...

Oh well, who knows maybe mr. right is just lurking somewhere in the corridors of the hospital. Or waiting to bump into you, accidentally of course, in a mall or in a restaurant... :-)

AngelMD-No-More said...

haha nah! definitely not from this hospital sngl.

vernaloo said...

I wonder why Sngl can be positive for other people's lovelife but when it comes to his....hayyy hehe

AngelMD-No-More said...

hahaha wat can i say verns? my lips are sealed. uhmp!hehe